OK,
a few posts ago I spoke of meeting someone I wanted to ‘approach’, well here is what has happened since then…
If you recall, I was in two minds about what to do, not from fear or the usual ‘Christian hesitation’ – I’ve gotta do an article about that one… anywho…
I was in two minds because it wasn’t sitting comfortably in my spirit, I’m in a season where God has called me to do great and mighty things and a relationship actually doesnt fit the season,
I also mentioned that I was going to ‘seek wise counsel’ on the matter and have since spoken to my Pastor about it, it kinda felt like a silly topic to bring up but at the same time I needed to know my decision was a sensible one. When in the whole world of emotions, I dunno bout you but I get all ‘googly’ and actually don’t fully trust my own judgement at times.
I would rather be open and expose myself to a little embarassment than a full on emotional mess in not making sure I chose the right path in the first place.
There’s a proverb that speaks of ’counting the cost of building a house before beginning’, I had to evaluate the whole situation and then get a second (wiser and un-emotionalised) opinion from trusted people.
So… what does this mean…
well, I still like her… simple
BUT I wont be making any approach just yet, there will be a time and place for it and we shall continue to be friends.
Now, at the point that I do enter a relationship, either with this enchanting young lady or another… I expect all of you to stick with me cos the journey wont be over yet, it will be just another chapter… or better yet another volume in the saga…lol
I will need some of you to help me in my cry for help when she ‘manifests’ as a woman and blesses me with the laying on of lips… and by that I mean she cusses me for doing something… lol
That reminds me I’ve gotta talk about my stance on affection in Christian relationships…
Pray for me guys, I already told God He owes me for this one… I coulda been inviting ya’ll for chicken and wedding cake…lol
until next time…
favour and blessings peeps!
Shalom Shalom!
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