OK,
i’m in a bit of a ranting mood at the moment…
girls wearing a ring on the wedding finger,
if ever there was an annoying bit of foolishness i ever came across this is it!!!
ESPECIALLY considering the fact that they’re single,
yeah yeah yeah i know it (sort of, half way) deters unsaved and street rats from tryna holla at you but the collateral damage is even more painful than having to keep saying no to a guy and walking a little faster!
Of every guy i have ever asked what they think of unmarried girls wearing rings on their wedding finger, the response has been a landslide in favour of not doing it.
Us as guys if we meet a girl that we like, then see a ring on the finger; WE WILL WRITE YOU OFF!!! PERIOD!!!
I dont even want to imagine the amount of guys that never ever asked the girl out and ended up with someone else even tho they would have been an awesome fit for you! (ladies)
yea yeah yeah, I have also heard the argurment from girls saying “well the guy should ask”
thats like saying to a guy that he should ask EVERY woman he see’s with a wedding ring!
The ring is there to differentiate you accordingly and it is to be respected as a sign that ‘this one is taken’
If a guy DOES ask about you or worse yet still ‘holla’s at you’ with your ring on be very worried…
now lets go back to the question…’ is it a smart idea to wear a wedding ring when your not married, engage, or even at least in a meaningful relationship’
i think not!!!
AND CATEGORICALLY NO… before anyone even says it even if he sees the girl loads of times later WITHOUT THE RING (as this is a game of educated guesses and assumptions) it is safe to assume that ‘you’re just not wearing your rightful wedding ring that day!!!’ (maybe cos you work with chemicals and it could get damaged or you work with people or children which maybe hurt by your jewellery or what ever)
Its just a bad idea,
everyone please copy this article to your facebooks, blogs or whatever, get the word out there… lets stop this nonsense!
cos i know married women who dont wear their rings all the time, and married women with husbands in the army or working overseas or on cruise boats, so just cos i dont see a man doesnt mean there aint one there!
and yes, that guy you now like might have seen your ring one day and HAS written you off his ‘possible approach’ list
selah, pause calmly think about that!
until next time…
favour and blessings peeps!
Shalom Shalom!
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